2021.12.06 01:38 sweaterblankets3 24F hoping for some cool people to talk to!
Pretty new to reddit and just discovered this subreddit and it definitely sounds like a cool idea! Talking to new people is always fun so I’m hoping to have some cool chats with you cool folks!
I do have a bf so please keep it friendly :) I’m from Canada and my hobbies include swimming and hiking
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2021.12.06 01:38 Civil_Money_8709 My date mistakenly assumed she was being stalked
It is a very specific situation and my initial draft was 6 pages long. I reduced it significantly while giving as much context as possible, but let me know if specific details are necessary?
Important: I am originally from Eastern Europe and lived around France for college, before I moved to the US for grad school. Although I consider myself a citizen of the world, there are certainly some cultural differences that should be taken into account.
Me (27M), have been single for 9 months prior to the beginning of this story (on good terms with my ex (25F)). In these 9 months, I have been on about two dozen dates, but nothing serious came out of it. Then I met her (23F) on a dating app.
She is great: beautiful, funny, smart. After about a week of texting, we go on a date. Everything goes perfectly, she is very genuine, there is a good feeling and connection between the two of us, at the end of the date I drop her off at her place and we make out. It was the first time in those 9 months that someone made me feel this way, and by the time I was back home, I already knew that she was someone special.
She plans our second date (cute and thoughtful). We text almost nonstop since we matched, and it feels like we are both 16 again, sending cute messages with emojis and hearts. At one point I briefly opened up and told her how I felt about what was going on, and she confirmed that we were on the same page. I have been in 5 long-term relationships prior to this (which didn’t work out for various reasons), but at that point, I had some good experience in dealing with emotions, communication, and just reading into another person’s feelings. She was genuinely into me and excited about how things were evolving.
Then something changed. At that point, it has been about 3 weeks and 5-6 dates. The last time we saw each other, we spent the night at my place. The next day she went to a party with some of her girlfriends in the evening. We texted again in the morning, and things still seemed fine. But then she didn’t reply for more than a day, which felt very inconsistent with our previous interactions. I sent her a text asking if something was wrong, to which she replied very casually that she gave it some thought and she didn’t think it would work. I sent her a few more messages trying to figure out a “why” or “how” and if I did something wrong, but she just said that “I was a really great guy and I was really nice to her”, but she just had a feeling and something was off. She didn’t reply to my next text.
Needless to say, I was very sad and confused. I couldn’t figure out what could have caused such a reaction and a radical turn in her attitude. Just a day before we were sending each other cute messages, and now she low-key ghosted.
I am a bit of a tragic romantic by nature, so I thought I’d give her a few days to figure stuff out, and in the meantime, I wrote her a letter and a poem. I put an enormous amount of thought and effort into the words, design, and even made an origami flower to accompany it. My best guess was that there has been some misunderstanding, and I thought that if I am honest and vulnerable about how I was feeling about things would at least initiate a conversation and we could figure things out. About a week later I drove to her place and left the letter and poem at her doorstep. After 5 days, there was no reaction from her side, then I noticed that she blocked me on all social media (facebook, instagram, snapchat, probably SMS as well). I noticed that even a friend of hers that I met once unfriended me on facebook. That was very hurtful and sad for me. At worst I was expecting her to say thank you for the letter and the effort, but explain that it just wouldn’t work for her. Nothing of this magnitude.
Moreover, a few days later, I realized that she didn’t block me on that dating app, and when I looked at her profile, she added a line to her bio saying: “Never bringing anyone to my place again, because the last guy that I brought home was a stalker”. That completely shattered my heart, as I couldn’t have envisioned that my actions would be perceived in such a way. I know friends and exes that had issues with stalkers, and that was just terrifying, and I couldn’t believe that she would think that of me just because I wanted to do something romantic and thoughtful. I sent her a brief message on that app saying that I was shocked, but also apologized and told her that I didn’t mean to cause her any distress. She blocked me there too.
Now I’ve dealt with rejection before, and although it is never pleasant, you get over it eventually, and it’s always possible to see the signs of it coming, once you got to know that person for a bit. But not here. I spent a couple of weeks after this just ruminating and trying to find an explanation for everything (I also have ADHD, which didn’t help too much). Nothing made sense, nothing I did could have caused anything proportional to this, and I consider myself a good judge of character and I know that she was a good, genuine person, so telling myself that she just played me and moved on wasn’t an option either. Not finding an answer consumed a good amount of my brain cells. After that, I got distracted with grad school, work, and just life, so I thought that I moved on. However, about 2 months later, it all came back, and that sadness and confusion took hold of me again.
I talked about this with my best friend from college (that I have known for over 8 years), and she got curious about the situation as well. I thought that getting a fresh perspective would be a good thing. I let her read our entire text conversation, and she agreed that it seemed to be going great, but only until the last day we spent together. We cycled through those events in more detail, and she helped me realize something that I was overlooking before. We were both convinced that we cracked the case!
What we believe actually happened, is that this girl misinterpreted something and thought I was stalking her. In brief, right after she drove off from my place on that last day, I hopped into my car and went grocery shopping (which I believe I mentioned to her). After a few minutes, I realized I was driving behind her, but she made a turn (towards a fast food) before I could catch up so I wasn’t sure if she actually saw me or not. I jokingly texted her about it, thinking that she would ask if she would be confused about it. She seemed to have reacted normally to that, so I didn’t develop on this and we never talked about it after.
Now what my friend pointed out is that she must have assumed that I was stalking her, and as a huge red flag, she didn’t react to it, because she wasn’t sure how to deal with it on the spot. What happened next, is that she and her girlfriends at that party probably analyzed my actions and they just convinced her to “run away” (I would have probably told the same in their place). Then to my horror, I realized that me bringing her stuff to her doorstep is the worst thing I could have done. All this time I thought she overreacted to this when she called me a stalker, but now I realize that she was already thinking that, and this only reinforced her beliefs. It was a horrible and painful revelation. Anyway, everything that happened afterward started making more sense when I was taking this into account: from the way she ended things so casually, without giving an explanation (you don’t know what a crazy person would do if you’re letting them know you’re into them), to how she had no reaction to my letter and then blocked me. It is something that I learned over the years, but I solved many relationship issues through communication. Even though I wish she communicated her concerns to me, how can I be mad if the poor girl thought I was crazy and she most likely feared for her wellbeing?
All this time I was thinking that at best, something bad happened in her life and she cut me off, or at worst she was just crazy or emotionally unstable. Now, after spending over a week with this new realization, I am just horrified at what she went through and must have thought about me. Although I don’t know how I could have made things better knowing what I knew at that time, I am now extremely remorseful and sad that I was the source of her distress.
I am unsure about what to do next, knowing this now. On one hand, I am extremely uncomfortable with the idea of her thinking this about me, and at the very least I’d want her to know my perspective and explain things. I am also very sad about the fact that such a misunderstanding has ruined the good thing that we were having. I know that even if she believed me and accepted my sincerity, it is a tough thing to process and accept. But I can’t help but think what if? On the other hand, although I know her postal and email addresses (which I have not abused all this time), reaching out to her directly in any capacity would send the wrong message. One of the thoughts that I have is to write a letter explaining my actions and my perspective and to reach out to her friend (over facebook). If I could explain it to her friend and hopefully gain enough of her sympathy that she passes my letter along, it would be a much more considerate way to reach out to her.
So to sum up, at the minimum, I want her to know that I am not who she thought I was, and ideally I’d want to somehow re-establish communication and maybe see if something new could come out of it, eventually.
What are your opinions about this and what would you do in my place? Has anyone lived through or heard about something similar, and how did that turn out?
TL;DR: After a few weeks of dating, the girl assumed I was stalking her and ended things. Almost 3 months later, after finally understanding what happened, I am wondering if there is anything I can do to make things better?
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2021.12.06 01:38 Your_Name_Here1234 Is it normal for a navel piercing to sit this deep in my navel?
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2021.12.06 01:38 Snuky_ Simple question
Seeing DNF Duel on youtube made me interested so i looked into it. I found Dungeon Fighter Online which after a little bit of research, got me extra interested. just wanted to get a current update sort of thing to the question: is it worth getting into as a mostly f2p player that isn't too interested in pvp stuff?
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